Changing the world

Just after Christmas, the Cape Cod Times published an op-ed by Jim Donnellan entitled "Three words to change the world."

In it, Mr. Donnellan reminds us that there is a way to dissolve tension, get a different perspective and learn from each other. He states, "Instead of reacting [in a tense situation], pause...and then ask the magical three words: "Help me understand. ..."

Unlike some who have run for public office, I've been very forthcoming about my opinions on various subjects. While this makes it easy to know where I stand, it also makes it easy to write me off. Someone might think that because I believe A or support X, therefore I don't believe B or support Y.

Nothing could be further from the truth.

I have opinions and hold positions based upon what I know. However, I'll be the first to admit that I don't know everything; it's possible that I could be wrong. So, I'll follow Mr. Donnellan's suggestion and leave an open door for you.

If you disagree with me about who or what I support or an opinion that I hold, tell me. I promise that the first words out of my mouth will be, "Help me understand..."